As I grow up, I am realizing that there are alot of subjects that people don't talk about. I can understand this a little but I also believe that if I know something that could help you, than I want to share that with you, whether it's information that you can enjoy or learn from. I should probably be more private, but I'm not. What you see is pretty much what you get.
Several months ago, I was visiting with one of my children. Without much thought, I asked a simple question, and the answer I received soon became the beginning of the biggest test of my life so far. Little did we know, we were headed into a storm that would hit us hard and shake us to our very core.

Someone I knew and trusted very much, had come into our home and violated my child while I slept soundly in my own bed. I suddenly found myself with two questions, How did this happen? and Why did my child not tell me about it immediately?
The next couple of weeks became a blur of interviews, examinations, counseling, questions and many, many tears. So many lives would be affected by one persons choice and when the dust finally began to settle, there was much damage that had been done.

Yesterday, for us, it finally came to an end. The legal system, when combined with faith and prayers, worked for us! For those on the other side, it is the beginning of change and the hope of healing. I believe that the best outcome for all was reached. Now we can begin to pick up the pieces and rebuild. Sadly, there are paths that may never cross again in this lifetime, but hopefully, all will find peace and comfort as we now wrap ourselves in the arms of the atonement.
When you walk through a storm,
Hold your head up high,
And don't be afraid of the dark,
At the end of a storm, there's a golden sky,
And the sweet silver song of a lark.
Walk on through the wind,
Walk on through the rain,
Though your dreams be tossed and blown...
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart,
And you'll never walk alone,
You'll never walk alone...
My prayer for all of you.... Please, trust your instincts and be cautiously suspicious of everyone. Talk to your children, don't doubt the promptings you feel in your heart. You're the Mom! It's your right and duty to protect the precious ones that surround you.
And maybe, because of my story, there will be one more mother who will know more than I did, and one less victim.
God Bless,
13 comments:
I'm so glad you can begin to really move forward and that the legal system worked for you. Beautiful post Laurie. ~hugs~
This is a beautiful blog! I'm so glad things are at a close for you and your family. I've been thinking about you a lot lately.
This post makes me cry...it's so beautifully written and heartfelt. What a tragedy too for you and your family to endure all of this. I'm so happy that the legal system got it right. Thank you for your willingness to open up to us...you are absolutely amazing.
Oh my goodness. That is so sad. I think most of us think that this will never happen to us. How horrible for it to happen to a sweet innocent child. I'm glad you listened to your instincts and talked to your child. May you have the spirit to be with you in time of comfort and need.
Laurie I am so glad that this nightmear is at a close. I think that you are an amazing wife, mother, and friend. I hope that you all are begining to see the rainbow.
Thanks for sharing something so personal with the hopes that it might prevent this happening to someone else. I'm amazed by your courage and faith.
So glad that the legal portion of this nightmare has come to a close. I'm so sorry that you, your daughter, and your family had to go through this!
I am glad yesterday closed a portion of the this tragic ordeal for you. Prayers for your family are continuous. I am grateful for for the comfort Our Savior can give us, without it I know I would be lost.
OH my gosh Laurie! I had no idea this had happened! MY heart is just breaking thinking about your beautiful children. You're going through something that I have nightmares about. This is something that I'm extreamly cautious about, it terrifies me that this could happen to one of my children. It's actually the number one thing I worry about with them, with sending them to school, with letting people watch them. People always tell me to just have someone babysit my kids so I can have some private time, but I can't. I only have a handful of very close people that I truly trust with my children because of this very issue. I've heard of personal accounts from people who even work in the temple who have done this to their own grand children. I guess the only defence we have is to pray and be very vigilante and still things happen. I'm so sorry.
Laurie,
You are amazing, and as I get to know you through your blog, more and more I am grateful--that I have gotten to know you..Your strength and example is strenght to me..Keep fighting the fight.
Life is scary and then it comes knocking! I'm so glad that you're on the mend after this. My heart just broke when I read about this! A few years back Shantel and her friend were going daily to the pool. After the friend went home {to another state} her mom called and told us the girls had been being followed and bothered at the pool by a man. We had learned that this man was banned from the pool, his picture placed at the entrance and that he is a cho-mo -- what we didn't know was that that our daughter was one of the ones he was harassing! She said NOTHING to us! Thank-goodness her friend told her mom!
Whoa! You've been going through a lot. I cannot even imagine and I hope I never have to. Things are so scary "out there."
My prayers are with you! (((((Hugs))))
Thank you for reminding us mothers to be diligent in watching over our children at all times. I'm sorry you had to go through all this. Love, Marie
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