Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Ummm.....not sure what to say

Conversation at lunch yesterday as told to me by J:

Kinsey: Looks at J's lunch and says, "Oh man, did your mom have another one of her bright ideas?"
J: "Yea, only she's serious about this one. If it works, we have to stick with it."
Kinsey: "I'm so sorry! I'm just really glad that my mom is normal!"
J: "I wish mine was."

What do your kids say about you when you're not around?

Monday, February 25, 2008

Where's K?

Yesterday after church we all climbed into the sub. The kids were all laughing and playing and arguing over who sat where and Hubby and I were just relieved to have survived another Sunday. For some reason, Hubby didn't drive right off but we chatted for a minute. I turned around and noticed that all the car seats were empty and the kids were all crammed in the back seat together having a party. I could see H and the older 4 but not K. Just as Hubby put the car into drive, I asked who had K. Suddenly we could hear a panicked muffled scream. It was K, but where was she. No one had her on their lap so we decided she wasn't in the car. Hubby looked out his side mirror and there she was, standing by her door waiting for someone big to open it for her. When she heard the car start up, she panicked and screamed. That's the scream we heard. Suddenly the reality of how close we came to either leaving her, or worse, running over her suddenly set in. We looked up to see several ward members staring at us in disbelief. I can only imagine the circus act we must have looked like. K cried for most of the ride home. She said that we scared her cuz she "foughts we had forgot 'bout her". Talk about guilt. One more reason to justify why couples should not have lots of kids.

Or....maybe I'm just thankful for another tiny miracle.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Dancing....

Last night our church had a family dance. We did not go. We stayed home and played our own music really loud and had our own silly family dance followed by poppy seed cake and ice cream.

So, do you (or would you) go to a family dance? Why? or Why not?

Here's my opinion: I do not understand the purpose of having a family dance at church. I'm not trying to have a bad attitude. It just makes no sense to me. When I went to dances as a teenager, I went to dance and flirt with cute boys. Even when I was old enough to date, going to dances was not the fun part of the date. Sure it was fun to dance a little with my date but mostly we went to just get pictures. It wasn't about the dancing at all. So now that I am happily married, I honestly do not see the purpose of having a church dance. I'm not interested in dancing with anyone but my husband. Trying to keep track of all my kids while holding my baby and trying to dance in a dimly lit church gym surrounded by other happily married couples and all their little kiddos running around just sounds like stress to me.

So now that I've sort of explained my thoughts here, maybe you can share with me what I am missing. In all fairness, I have never been to a dance since I have been married so I don't know what I am missing. I would love to hear your opinions. Our church has this dance every year so give me your opinion as to why I should or should not support this dance next year.

Friday, February 22, 2008

How do you say...?

Last night, S's class was asked to perform for the school board. Hubby and I left the other kids home and just took her. Her class has been learning Spanish so they sang a song that lists the days of the week, a song that lists the months of the year and then they did some conversation exercises for the board. They were really cute and I thought they did a great job! Afterwards, we stopped at the grocery store to get a couple of items. While there, Hubby was teasing S that they had mispronounced some of their words. S was quite sure that they had said them right since her teacher is always right. After several minutes of teasing each other, Hubby took S over to this cute little Spanish couple that was also shopping. They spoke very little English, so Hubby spoke to them in Spanish. He told them that S was learning to speak some Spanish but that some of her pronunciation was wrong but that she wouldn't believe him so would they please tell her the correct way to say some of the words. S was so embarrassed. It was so funny! We laughed and laughed. She just kept saying how she couldn't believe her dad would do that to her. We got our groceries and went to the checkout line. While we were waiting, I decided to make sure I had some money with me to pay for our stuff. I didn't! The store we were at only accepts cash or local checks so then it was my turn to embarrass S and Hubby. Hubby was kind of mad at me and kept saying how I was way too spacey sometimes. As we were walking out the door, empty handed, I saw one of my friends. Now I was embarrassed. As we passed her and I said Hi to her, she quickly showed me her ATM card and whispered, I forgot my money so I hope I can remember my PIN number so I can get some cash to pay for my groceries. I instantly felt better. I told her that was why we were leaving with no groceries. See, I'm not the only one like me out there. (OR maybe that doesn't say much for my friends.) We went and got our groceries at a store that takes a credit card. The whole evening S kept reminding us about how embarrassing it had been to hang out with her parents. I remember being young and thinking my parents were embarrassing also. I actually felt bad for doing that to her but we really had a good time with her and we laughed alot so I wasn't considering the evening a complete failure. Then, just before she headed off to bed, she came over to give me a hug and she said, "Thanks mom for a really fun evening. I had a really great time being with you and dad!" It reminded me of those LDS church commercials that say "Family....isn't it about TIME!"
Thanks S! Daddy and I had a great time with you also! You make us laugh!



P.S. My traps are full again this morning. This is not so much fun anymore. In fact I'm kind of mad about it today! I'm not very patient and this problem is getting old already! I guess it could be worse though. Hubby just stopped in for lunch and said that he has been investigating a dead body all morning. I guess my little dead mice problem is maybe not so bad. Wait, YES IT IS!!!!! YUCK!!!

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Home, Sweet Home!

Last night when Hubby got off work, he suggested that we take the sub over to the car wash and use the power washer to see if we could flush the mouse out. As we were driving, I kept feeling something like a mouse tail brush across my leg. Since I was driving, I thought we were going to get in a wreck. I had to put my feet up on the seat. This sort of stressed Hubby out a little bit. I suggested that maybe we should just buy a new vehicle. He thought I was acting rediculous. I wasn't! I was dead serious! I told him I also thought we should start looking at buying a new home, or at least a new garage. He suggested that it would be cheaper to buy some mouse traps. I consented to let him try his plan but if I find any more live mice, I'm taking matters into my own hands. This morning we woke to the traps full! I am not going anywhere today because I cannot go out into my garage with those dead things still out there. Of course, removing them is Hubby's "job" because he is so much braver than I am!

Also, I just got the strangest phone call from my insurance agent. He said he was worried about me and the kids and wanted to make sure we were okay and did I need anything from him. I thought this was a little forward considering I'm not really used to recieving phone calls of concern from other men other than my father. After I reassured him that we were fine and honestly didn't need anything from him, he asked how my house was and if there was anything I needed to report to him. I was thinking, "Perfect, I bet they have a policy about mice and how did he know I needed a new house." They don't, but apparently we had an earthquake this morning and there are homes and other structures around here that are damaged. I never felt a thing. Bummer! (My insurance agent now thinks I'm a nut job though! Oh well!)

It's only 10 o'clock! This day is off to a great start! Thank goodness it's Thursday!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Puking, a Puppy, and a Pest!

It seems like I go through blogging spurts. Sometimes I blog almost non-stop and then all of a sudden, I don't have anything to write about. It's not that my life changes from boring to more boring. It's just that sometimes my brain just shuts off.

H is a strange kid. He is a little brute! He has a big, heavy head and he likes to ram into things with it. Then he thinks it's fun, so he'll do it again. If he sits up in bed and hits his head on the wall, he'll think about it for a second and then do it again, and again, and again, until I finally stop him. He thinks it's funny. Yesterday he was eating and he stuck his finger in his mouth and puked up a little on his hand. He didn't know what was on his hand, he licked it, stuck his finger in his mouth again, gagged and puked again, licked it again, and then repeated it all over again. It took me a minute to catch on to what he was doing and then I cleaned him up and he went off to play. A few minutes later when I looked over at him, he stuck his fingers in his mouth again, gagged and puked and then laughed and did it again. He has done this several times since. I have to keep a pacifier in his mouth at all times or he is trying to gag himself. He is a very strange kid!

J wants a puppy really bad. So much so that he becomes very emotional sometimes about how unfair his life is because every boy needs a dog to love. When I load the dishwasher, H has discovered that there is water on the door that he can play in. His new trick is to lick it up off the door. GROSS! Then he took his sippy cup and dumped the water on the floor and then laid down in it a licked it up off the floor. I don't need to buy a puppy! I have a puppy!

Today I went to school to pick the older kids up to take J to get his glasses adjusted while Z had guitar practice. We drive a black sub and J and S informed me that it was embarrassing to have our car be so dirty. It really did need a car wash so after the glasses were fixed, we headed over to the car wash. While we were in the car wash, with the machine washing our car, J noticed a little mouse crawling across our windshield. We had a moment of screaming. Then he climbed back down into the hood of the car and disappeared. I spent the rest of the drive waiting for him to climb up my leg. We had a mouse in our garage a few months ago but we haven't seen him since. We set out some traps but obviously the peanut butter must be frozen because we have not caught a thing. I have swept out the garage a couple of times and every now and then I have found some more mouse tracks so I have been suspicious that we still had a problem. Now I know that we still do. So, my newly washed car is not parked in my garage but is currently parked down the street. I am hoping to freeze that little bugger out of my hood and then when he comes out he will be disoriented and not know how to get back to my garage and then he will go live in someone else's garage. I'm very generous that way with my neighbors.

So, as you can see, not too much out of the ordinary is going on around here. It has warmed up to about 40 degrees though. Could Spring really be coming????

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Surprise Baby Shower!

After the Birthday Party (see post below), we sent Deb off to do something really important, not sure what, the boys all went to the church to play basketball, and we changed the decorations to pink and SURPRISE! We had a baby shower. Deb is having a baby in a couple of weeks. She has 3 little boys and now she is expecting her first little girl. Grandma Lowder told us that this little girl is her 91 great-grandchild! We can't wait for her to get here!





P.S. Some Statistics: My Grandparents have 8 children, 5 boys and 3 girls. They have 49 grandchildren, 47 are still living, 24 girls and 25 boys (I think that is right), and they currently have 90 great-grandchildren with 7 more on the way, all living, and Grandma said it was pretty close to half girls and half boys. I think these are amazing numbers. Look how many lives have been directly affected all because over 60 years ago, 2 people fell in love! I belong to an amazing family!